Amazing how complicated I feel towards the word, “deserve.” Or, rather, how quickly I want to push back at it and use an alternate word.
My counselor says he’s a firm believer in “better.” I have been so helped by that.
It’s interesting to reflect: Even in the prodigal son’s lack of belief/awareness of the actual magnitude of his father’s love, it’s because he remembers the character of his father (and how the father treats his servants) that he is validated in desiring something better. His “better” was so much smaller than his father had in store, but it’s still that desire that animates his action.
Thank you for your words here.
Also, your comment, “hope is something we practice,” feels like a line from an Emily Dickenson zinger.
“Better” is a great word, too! If that works for you use it. The essential truth is that we serve and belong to a Good Father who desires our good and it is right and good for us to pursue that good when it comes to physical and mental health.
Alan, I always appreciate reading your thoughts on the topic of mental health. They are a gift to Christ's Church. May the Lord grant you recovery and perseverance in hope.
Amazing how complicated I feel towards the word, “deserve.” Or, rather, how quickly I want to push back at it and use an alternate word.
My counselor says he’s a firm believer in “better.” I have been so helped by that.
It’s interesting to reflect: Even in the prodigal son’s lack of belief/awareness of the actual magnitude of his father’s love, it’s because he remembers the character of his father (and how the father treats his servants) that he is validated in desiring something better. His “better” was so much smaller than his father had in store, but it’s still that desire that animates his action.
Thank you for your words here.
Also, your comment, “hope is something we practice,” feels like a line from an Emily Dickenson zinger.
“Better” is a great word, too! If that works for you use it. The essential truth is that we serve and belong to a Good Father who desires our good and it is right and good for us to pursue that good when it comes to physical and mental health.
Alan, I always appreciate reading your thoughts on the topic of mental health. They are a gift to Christ's Church. May the Lord grant you recovery and perseverance in hope.