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You Are Not Your Own Substack

90's AOL Chat Rooms and the Desire to be Desired

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O. Alan Noble
Jul 30, 2025
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When I was 14 or maybe 15, I had this terrible habit of going on AOL (modem sounds) and joining chat rooms and asking a/s/l to meet girls my age to chat with. We’d share messages over AIM (I think my AIM handle was something like ZeroBoy, just to give you a sense of how things were going at the time). I’d chat up three or…

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